"A very difficult day of driving. But after 14 hours of traffic madness, at last, Butch Barbie and I have made it to Arizona. Now, at 6:10 pm, I still have about 4 hours or so left to drive."
October 18th, 2017
That was the text I included when I posted this picture on Facebook. There was a reason I included these details, this time window, but as is often my behavior, I didn't say what was going on.
You should know that I can detect dangerous people from miles away. Really. It's one of my super powers. I have several of those, by the way.
I took this picture while a man that I know for a fact, was stalking me. I think he started following me on the interstate. When I pulled in at this rest stop, he pulled in a few seconds later and parked right next to me. When I got out of the car and headed toward the restroom - and about 3 seconds after I stepped up on the curb - so did he.
Neither of these things is necessarily odd - it was a rest stop and people get out of their cars and head toward the facilities - but I overtly noticed him when he parked. It felt all wrong and my brain yelled louder and louder at me the farther I got from my car.
So I stopped short, turned around, walking back past him, went to my car and got Butch Barbie. I decided to avoid the restroom. I knew that if this guy had targeted me, that I shouldn't leave sight of my car. It's not uncommon for these men to compromise your vehicle so you are stranded on the side of the road at some point.
I grabbed Butch Barbie, stood up, and looked toward the facilities; I wasn't surprised to see that he also did not go into the rest room but stopped to take a drink from the fountain. When he stood up, he turned around to "survey his surroundings".
I took Butch Barbie and walked to the railing you see in the picture which was about 40 to 50 yards in front of my car and 30 or so feet beyond the picture location. I leaned on it, as many were doing, and looked out at the vista. He then walked from the fountain, staying quite close to the side of the building, up to the railing himself, but about 20 feet away from me. I wondered how to shake this weirdo, so I decided that I would behave somewhat normally for a few minutes and see if he would leave on his own.Well, he didn't leave the railing the entire time I stood there. So I walked back in the direction of my car, and a couple of seconds later, he too, left the railing. I worked to keep him within my peripheral vision. I stopped at this raised concrete planter thing and decided to have a photo shoot. This enabled me to pose Barbie and take pictures from different directions and angles. He had stopped and leaned against the building behind me. I was definitely his target.
Since there was no question that I had become a target, when I took the photos, I made a big show of doing so, garnering the attention of quite a few travelers that were also there, and having a few friendly back and forth comments. I would be remembered for being here and just maybe one of those people noticed him leaning against the building behind me. I was making it difficult for him without him realizing I was being deliberate about it.
When I finished, I headed back to my car, as did he. I got in and locked all the doors. The rest stop was really busy, people were walking on either side of my car to get to the restrooms, but they were coming and going with their own agenda and were not noticing this guy. But even so, I knew he wouldn't do anything with all of these people around.
In the photo, you can see the length of the shadows (you can even see me) - it was late afternoon. Most people don't tend to drive as long of a day as I do, and a logical assumption would be that I would be stopping for the night fairly soon, either at my destination (unlikely because it is a fairly empty stretch for many, many miles) or a hotel - although I wouldn't be.